4 Skills Learned by Moms and Kids Who Work and School Virtually

The skills we help our children build as they homeschool under our guidance can benefit them for a lifetime. Distance learning and remote employment were steadily gaining traction even before the pandemic influenced the digital terrain and increased the number of remote workers and distance learners so drastically. Research into the overlapping skills of distance learners and remote employees is quickly gaining the attention of scholars. There are already some key skills that research indicates can aid in advancement, both academically and professionally. The earlier those skills are acquired, the greater the chance of mastery.

A study conducted in 2019 surveyed a panel of accomplished distance learners and remote employees to determine which skills they reported as contributing significantly to their advancement. The experts were divided into three groups: distance learners, remote employees, and both distance learners/remote employees. The fascinating thing about this study was the unanimous agreement among the respondents in all three groups related to the ability to motivate themselves and to work independently.

1. Self-Motivation

Whether you are looking into your child’s first online learning experience or are a seasoned employee, honing the ability to push yourself, and your children toward achievement, production, and development is going to help all of you meet your future goals. Great, but how do we do that? Training ourselves and our children to have the right attitude and maintain motivation takes practice and perseverance. However, having the right attitude is critical as we face obstacles. There are many circumstances we cannot control, but we can control our attitude toward the situation. Setting attainable goals and reward systems for yourself and your children can also help to reinforce motivation, confidence, and the attitude needed to succeed. In Matthew 17:20 we learn that if we have just the tiniest mustard seed worth of faith, nothing is impossible. So, allow yourself to gain confidence one little bit at a time. Your students will benefit from such confidence and happiness as well.

2. Working Independently

The ability to work independently was also reported as indispensable by the experts in the survey. Working independently is critical because it is uninterrupted time spent essentially meditating on the task at hand. There is research (doi.org/10.1162/jocn_a_01481) that shows how interruptions impact the ability to complete a task and the quality of work. Teaching homeschoolers to work independently not only ensures that they have processed their knowledge and can properly apply it but also allows them to build confidence in their abilities. It is easy to want to jump in and make a correction right away, but if they can discover an error on their own, that experience is much more likely to stay with them. The ability to work productively and independently is a valuable skill that many adults are still trying to perfect. Try smaller increments of time at first (age-appropriate), and plenty of praise and guidance as your students progress.

3. Keep Up with Technology

Another competency that experts rated as very impactful to their success was the ability to stay up to speed with technology. It is easier said than done, but keeping up with the latest technology is worth the effort. New applications and programs come out every day, and even though they look and seem easy enough to use, we often stick to what we know. There may be technology available right now that could make your processes more efficient or your homeschooling more effective while you continue to work. Many people utilize voice-activated assistants such as Google or Alexa to organize lesson plans, calendars, events, reminders, shopping lists, and more. If you prefer to manually track your days, assignments, to-do’s, etc., a bullet journal is a fun and effective option that can even incorporate some art therapy when you have a moment.

4. Deep Dive

Have you noticed what these things seem to have in common? We build better lives for ourselves and our children from the inside out by setting goals we can reach and by giving ourselves a chance to solve difficult problems. All these skills are applicable and beneficial to a broad spectrum of life experiences, from childhood to adulthood. The experts pinpointed aspects of learning that can be easily overlooked. Instilling skills with value that are rewarding over the course of a lifetime is not only important but imperative for students facing education and work in the future on the digital terrain.


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Copyright 2022, The Old Schoolhouse®. Used with permission. All rights reserved by the author. Originally appeared in the Summer 2022 issue of The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine, the trade publication for homeschool moms. Read The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine free at www.TOSMagazine.com, or download the free reader apps at www.TOSApps.com for mobile devices. Read the STORY of The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine and how it came to be.

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Dr. Ramona Durso is an experienced bilingual management and education consultant with more than a decade of experience in the corporate arena. She uses her academic background in anthropology, business, and education as a foundation for coaching clients using a macroscopic and holistic approach in her business, RRD Consulting. Her research is aimed at those working and learning through the filter of technology to help clients build the skills they need to accomplish their goals.

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